So lately I had a very close friend ask if he can borrow all my gear ( tent auger heaters poles etc) because he wanted to do a day trip to a local lake with his family. Well it wasn't just his family, it was his family and a big group of people that I don't really know too well, and i knew alcohol would be involved.... So I said no. He seems to have gotten butt hurt.... Does this make me an ass hole? What are your policies towards loaning gear to friends/ people?